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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: As a [30s M], I'm being asked personal questions by my nosy [22 F] colleague and she won't give up.
POST: I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to an... | How do you deal with overly curious people, especially those you have to work with, who try to stick their noses in your business and won't relent until you give them what they're looking for? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Recruiters of Reddit, I have a dilemma, was hoping someone could help?
POST: Hi, So I have received a job offer from a company I did an internship for yesterday and they want me to start as soon as possible so they are asking me to decide if I want the role sometime today or tomorrow. It... | Have one job offer on the table that needs to be responded to by today; and waiting to even just interview(not even sure if I'll get that) for another role I REALLY want. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What should I (f/20) do about this situation
POST: I (F/20) was talking to a co-worker (F/21) the other day and the conversation about a guy (M,21) I was starting to date came up. They seem like very good friends and they spend a ton of time together.
But, she told me this long (an... | A friend of the guy I'm dating told me a sketchy story about him and I'm not sure if I should believe it or not and if I should look into it a bit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: How to be social in High School if I'm kind of a loser?
POST: So I'm kinda depressed, I've been to r/depression and r/SuicideWatch, and I'm not gonna kill myself any time soon, I think it would be foolish and wasteful to throw away almost all of my life for how my high school experience... | I can't talk to other people, I'm totally and unnervingly socially awkward. I'm kinda upset about it, any tips? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: New girl in my grade who I want to become friends with, I don't want to fuck this up again. Help?
POST: **This is no longer relevant since she now has a boyfriend, I have completely given up hope for the future,**
Last spring I tried to befriend a girl and I'm pretty sure I fucked ... | New girl comes to my school who I want to befriend, I don't want to fuck it up so what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32 F] feeling like a third wheel with my bf [26 M] and his friend [29 F] after threesome with her
POST: We have been together for 2.5 years, and have a house together. I agreed to have a threesome with my SO, as I like to try new things. One of my requests at the time was that I d... | Threesome gets predictably complicated. How do I reconcile my jealousy and wanting my SO to be happy with his new friend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Looking for some advice regarding cat Eye infections or Entropions. Can any Vets or people with experience help me with this?
POST: Hi everyone. I'm desperate and looking for some advice about eye infections in cats.
So a little background, about 2 months ago my cat Gibson developed some ki... | Cat has entropion, there is some improvement after months of treatment and surgery but now the other eye looks like it's developing another entropion. Sad, desperate and needing some advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: M(24) having issues with her F(22) guy friend
POST: We've been together about two months now. I've always felt a little off about the guy but nothing too crazy. Long story short she tells me that she use to have feelings for the guy years ago. That alone really wasn't an issue ... | Vacation with a guy friend she use to have feelings for. Am I crazy/10 for not being okay with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/f] I dated [24/m] off and on for 6 months I moved to a diff country so I told him we had to stop talking. Just want to know I made the right decision.
POST: Honestly I think this is silly I'm asking for advice online but my family and friends are getting me nowhere. I'll be... | I moved away and still really liked a guy from back home but cut it off because of escalating feelings on my part. I feel this was the right choice but seems I'm alone. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend's [27M] mother [55F] was just diagnosed with cancer and has an extremely bad outlook. Is it ridiculous to seriously consider getting married and/or have a baby in the very near future?
POST: We've been together 2.5 years, lived together for probably 1.5 yrs of that... | BF's mum has aggressive cancer and a low chance of survival. We both thought of getting married and/or having a baby and I'm starting to think about it more seriously, am I crazy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (m18) dont know about gf(18f)'s feelings. Help!
POST: I've been in a relationship for over a year with my girlfriend. Recently it was bad and I decided to leave her. I immediatlt regretted it and asked her to take me back!
After that, she told me she needed some time before speaki... | i am not sure about wether or not itll still work for her, but i know im ready to start off like we were used to |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[20M/F] with my boyfriend [21M] for almost 8 months, and I'm struggling with "those three words"
POST: My boyfriend, and also long time friend, have been together a decent span of time for two people who have trust issues, and despite a lot of rocky times. A major difference betwee... | Boyfriend is completely inexperienced in close relationships. I want to tell him I love him, but am concerned that he might panic because he has never been in love and may not even know he loves me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf [24] said she had not been with anyone before me [M23], now 1.5 years later she tells me otherwise.
POST: When we started out 1.5 years ago she told me that she had one boyfriend before me but that it was a LDR and they never did anything sexually. I on the other hand told her eve... | She told me for 1.5 yrs that she she hadn't done anything sexual before me, now she tells me she gave her ex one BJ. I don't care about the BJ, I am unhappy she lied to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Wife and I want to take our honeymoon after 5 years of marriage, whats the best way to fund an international trip?
POST: Hey there /r/personalfinace. My wife and I are both 25, married for 5 years and we'd like to finally get outside of the country. We make a combined $60k, but asi... | young couple with not a lot of money want to take a $5-6,000 trip to Japan without dipping into savings. Is that possible, and what is the best way to do it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to film a fight
POST: I live in a kinda bad neighborhood so sometimes ghetto shit goes on outside. Today two black girls had another one up against a minivan in front of my apartment and they were hitting her in the face over and over. Instead of helping or doing anything my fi... | I witnessed a girl get her ass beat and instead of helping i tried filming. Girl I wanna bang thinks I'm scummy for it and now probably wont bang me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34 M] with my parents [62 M/F] - they decided to buy a condo in my complex with a balcony facing mine
POST: Please tell me I am sane in reacting like this... Earlier this year I bought my first home (a condo). I had my parents over to show them what I got and they fell in love w... | Moved to a condo, parents fell in love with complex, now they are buying a condo that faces my balcony and share my pool. Am I over reacting when I feel stripped of my privacy and independence :( ? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my EX [21F] 2 Years, Long painful passionate relationship came to an end, she's changed into a completely different person
POST: Me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now after a long 2 years of just clinging on to the smallest of hope and pushing on but i... | Broke up with innocent sweet girl, turned into a complete different person, feel bad for her and need to understand whats going on with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M25] don't feel attractive because of expactations
POST: There are unreasonable expactations when it comes to how men and women should be and look like.
I'm not a Twilight fantasy, i'm no 50 Shades of grey, I don't have a highly succesfull job, I'm in school, no car, just an app... | How do I compete with womens fantasy portrayed in movies/novels/moviestars/singers? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my crush [24 F] 1 Year knowing each other, unsure of she likes me!
POST: ear reddit gods, I need some advice on to see if this girl likes me or not. I met her last year at a concert with a bunch of other friends. When I broke up with my ex of 4 years last year, she was... | Known her for 1 year, gotten really close and always hang out together, but have no idea if she is just treating me as a good friend or possible boyfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Male acquaintance [20] is now engaged to his high-school sweetheart. While awaiting an answer to his proposal, he sent very flirtatious messages on FB while drunk to my friend [19F]. Should I tell his fiancé?
POST: He and the sweetheart have been together about five years. I honestly... | A guy I know not-so-well has just been engaged but I have a transcript of a flirty (drunken) FB convo with a friend of mine. Should I tell his now-fiancé? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] found my ex [22F] on a dating site where she is listed as single. I know that she isn't.
POST: Throwaway because a few of my friends have reddit
Basically my ex of 2 years cheated on me and I broke up with her in the middle of last year. She stayed in a relationship with the... | My friend found my ex on a dating site saying that she is single, but she has a boyfriend. Should I tell her boyfriend about the profile? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25f) feel like i'm falling out of love with my boyfriend (31m). we've dated for a year and 4 months. Help.
POST: We've been dating all these times, went through so much together, he helped me getting better with PTSD from the rape that happened before I met him. I love him so, so ... | love my bf but I feel like I'm falling out of love with him. Nothing to talk about and his routine drives me nuts |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 2 years, lives with me and I want out.
POST: Hi guys, I'll get right to this. My girlfriend and I have been together for little over 2 years. Since this past June, I moved down to her University and leased out a house with buddies of mine. Just ... | Gf lives with me and goes to same school. I don't want to be in a relationship anymore, if we split I feel like she wont be able to support herself to go to college. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Bad experience with haircuts?
POST: Parents have been nagging me to get a haircut after months of little hints(Not even long, about this -> and I wash it, brush it and keep it acceptable, and even wear a hat(Snow beanie).
So, they finally end up making me get a haircut, and this lady h... | Haircutter I trusted FUCKED my shit UP! Definitely not what I asked for... Scumbag EVERYONE! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19M] wrote a letter about [19F], but I'm still not sure if I should read it to her.
POST: The letter itself explains most of the situation, so I'll let it do the talking on the situation. I still have until next Sunday to make the call on whether it'd be a good idea to go ahead wit... | I really like a girl that I met in August, and she says she likes me, but she doesn't want to be in a relationship, so we're friends, but being friends is making me crazy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what is the strangest thing to happen to your body? Example inside
POST: Couldn't think of a better way to word the question, here's mine:
Growing up I had warts on both palms of my hands, around 15-20 of them I would say. I'm not sure when they arrived, I just always remember t... | Had warts on hands for several years. After arranging to have them frozen off they suddenly disappeared in the space of a few weeks without ever going to the appointment |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20f] just cut things off with the guy [27m] I've known for a decade but have only been dating for 3 months. Too harsh?
POST: I live in Southern California and he lives in NorCal. I've known him for about ten years because he's my cousin's best friend but we were never close until ... | Guy who I've been seeing is broken from a previous relationship but wanted the perks of me being his girlfriend with no commitment. I cut things off. Should I have stayed to support him and his depression? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[M26] girlfriend[28F] has miss placed priorities and what I feel is greed. I am am a but to fault.
POST: I have been with my girlfriend now for about 3 years. 1.5 of those was spent living together and a year LDR while I had to relocate for a new contract.
She comes from an extrem... | Girlfriend comes from an extremely poor background yet seems to only crave what isn't isn't realistic. I support and help her a lot, but misplaced priorities or greed is effecting us. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what is an acceptable age to move out of the parent's house?
POST: I know a lot has to do with whatever the given situation is (relationships with said parents, financial issues, ect). But me being a 24 year-old male, who works, pays some of the bills, helps out with his parent's... | 24 year-old male, live with my folks, can afford to live on my own but probably can't since I have bad credit, other issues, just read, haha! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] girlfriend[21F] cries when I can't cum from bj
POST: Would like advice on how to deal with this and or make her feel better about it. I think about 1/10 to 1/4 times she tries to give me oral I can't finish and I believe it makes her feel insecure. I have tried telling her t... | GF gets upset with herself when I can't come from a BJ(possibly because she is insecure) How can I help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my Girlfriend [18F] of 10 months, she has moved out of state for college and now feels like she can't make me happy.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been going out for 10 months now, she's moved out of state for college, we consider ourselves a strong couple and we had b... | Girlfriend and I are doing great, but the long distance sexting upsets her, I've helped a lot of people with stuff but I'm stumped by this :/ |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: To dj or not to dj? To game or not to game?
POST: Neither I nor my fiance are big into dancing. We both find it fun, but ultimately don't enjoy doing it in front of people. To this end, we plan on having a playlist and a friend in charge of change overs, and card games at the table... | don't want to have a dj, want to have games at most tables. Advice/ anecdotes would be greatly appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, my little brother really needs your help.
POST: He been playing xbox live through the kinect with a kid from school. There has always been problems with this kid, he's "the bully" from his school. Well he got into a fight with him and now he is making awful threats to my brot... | Brother being bullied on xbox, blocked the user, user has jail broken xbox so he's hacking my brothers account, how can we make this stop? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27/F] best friend [28/F] has become the most negative person I've ever met, and I don't know how to tell her.
POST: My best friend and I have been friends for about 16 years now, and over the past few months I have noticed that she's become the most negative person I know.
This ... | My best friend hasn't had one positive comment to make in the last 6 months and I want to talk to her about it but don't know how without her getting defensive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Now that I'm back to school and work, how much time should I spend with my SO? [24m, 22f]
POST: This is my last year of college which means senior design project, classes, interviews, job hunting, graduate school applications, and research among other things.
My SO doesn't go to th... | Our ages are 24m, 22f. I'm overloaded with a lot of work this semester, how do I make sure we spend time together and keep a healthy relationship? We've been dating for 6 months? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[29 M] and my former girlfriend [28F] are trying to be in a relationship again but she is not interested in sex anymore
POST: We used to just fool around a few years ago, I should say that at the time we werent in a formal relationship because I was somewhat of a sleaze bag and hur... | lonf term on and off girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex with me. Now that we are trying a real relationship is this normal thing that can't be overcome? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F22] am really shy when it comes to flirting/dating, how do I talk with [M21]?
POST: There's a guy in my class that I've noticed seems to always be around where I am. In a couple of instances we had club meetings and he always comes up to me and talks to me. There are awkward mome... | I'm shy and kind of awkward. It takes me a while to get comfortable with someone, and I'm sorta interested in this guy, not sure what to do... |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I have a job offer from a temp agency, and I don't know if I should leave my full time job.
POST: Hi everyone, I have been grappling with this problem for some time now, and I am not sure what to do. I recently graduated college and I got a full time job in a management candidate program at a... | Have a full time job that I mostly like, have another offer from a temp agency, how should I measure risk? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] gf [21F] returns from her 4 month term abroad tomorrow and I'm more nervous than excited.
POST: My gf has been studying abroad since August. We've been able to talk the vast majority of days and have video chatted a handful of times. She's coming back tomorrow and of course ... | hoping for guidance on how I should deal with this nervousness; 4 months realistically isn't long so I know others who will read this have done much more extensive absences |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Intimacy in crisis: how do we arrange for Skype sex?
POST: I'll try to make this short and to the point. I [M, 20] live about 400 miles away from my girlfriend [F, 20] of ~2 years (she's at a local community college, I'm at a 4 year). We love each other very much, but we haven't had ... | Girlfriend and I (both 20 y.o.) live 400 miles apart, her at home and I at school. Little to no intimacy because we're never alone for Skype sex etc. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your strangest experience with your neighbors?
POST: The couple in the townhouse next mine are constantly fighting to the point the cops have been called a few times. A few months back my roommate were out in the back yard drinking when we heard a loud slam followed by yelling so... | Neighbor tried to hang himself in the front yard with extension chord but roommate cut him down from the tree with samurai sword. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have a delicate situation that Ive been thinking about recently...throwaway for obvious reasons inside...
POST: I have a counselor/therapist that I go to for food problems mostly, and family issues. Mom is overprotective, I live under a rock, my dads relationship is nonexistant and hes... | My therapist is my boss's accountant/bookkeeper. I want to tell him I have never orgasmed or came before. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by using a soon-to-be expired credit card
POST: Let me start out by saying I'm so extremely frustrated and disappointed with Walmart.com right now. I successfully placed a preorder for a video game, Fallout 4: PipBoy Edition which comes out in November, back in June. This version is ex... | Pre-ordered Fallout 4:PipBoy edition but order was cancelled because credit card expired after I placed the order. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I, 26[F], with him, 26[M] - Moral responsibility with infidelity?
POST: I will sum this up as succinctly as possible.
At the age of 20, I went on an exchange to another country. I made new friends, including another exchange student. We developed feelings for each other, up until th... | My 'friend' and I conducted an emotional affair that culminated in a single sexual act. Should I tell his SO about this long-term infidelity? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: i [f-24] got drunk and had sex with my ex [m-26] last night...
POST: hi reddit,
i'm so stupid!
my ex-boyfriend (26) and me (f-24) have been together for 5 years, but broke up about 7 months ago.
my friend told me, that he just recently started dating again. i thought i was cool w... | miss my ex. thought i didn't love him anymore, but still do. we both got drunk last night and had sex. what to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 20F, boyfriend wants to videotape
POST: So, me and my boyfriend (he's 22) have been together for 7 months. We are going to be long distance for about a month and a half. He wants to videotape us having sex, and I don't want to.
He says he wants the videos so that he can have stuff to... | boyfriend wants sex tapes, i don't want to do them, i want to know if i'm being irrational. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [29M] inconsiderate neighbors [various ages and genders] are too loud every night of the week. And they steal my tomatoes.
POST: Original post:
I spoke with the man of the house earlier today. I told him that they are being too loud every night. It was his birthday "weekend" ... | Spoke with neighbors. They're quiet. I'll follow up with HOA and cops. I'll set up cameras and put up a fence too. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Owner is adjusting time cards, wage theft. How should I proceed?
POST: I work for a small company (in Ohio) as store manager, I run most day to day things, but when it comes to payroll, my boss, the owner retrieves the time card info from the website we use for scheduling and clocking ... | owner committing wage theft, back pay wouldnt honestly amount to a ton of money.have proof but also need my job.halp? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years, I don't know what love feels like?
POST: Basically, I fear that my initial infatuation (butterflies in my stomach, etc) might have been all that motivated me to stay in this relationship. We began dating our senior year of high school a... | I don't know what love is supposed to feel like, and, because of it, I don't know whether I love my girlfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do you know your IQ score, and if so, how does this knowledge affect your life, if at all?
POST: I haven't thought about IQ scores in a while, but today my dad brought it up. I was tested as a kid, and scored fairly high, somewhere between 136-142.
I just realized how much it had aff... | Do you think kids should know their test scores at a young age? If you knew yours, did it affect your life goals? Do you trust the test at all - do you believe that it is accurate? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 30yr old (m) dating 25 yr old (f) wondering why is so hard for her to just admit that she's in a relationship. Serious replies only please.
POST: Been with this girl for about 6 months. Things moved pretty quickly, living together. She is very feisty and doesn't comprise much (Leo) a... | Girlfriend doesn't understand that I like to feel wanted and would like her to make our relationship more known. Blows up when I request it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The "wasn't meant to be" reason, 24M and 22F
POST: It's been a month since my breakup, and actually life has been good. The break up happened suddenly when after four intense months I told my ex that I loved her, and she said she didn't feel the same way. She left a week after to go ... | Broke up with girlfriend, a month later find out she just wasn't over her last relationship. She maintains we weren't "meant to be", but is that reason always final? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my Dad [ 47 M], My dad is so nice to me but I always get upset when I see him.
POST: My dad and I used to be very close and he's been with me during a lot of my hardships, but lately I get so mad at him when I see him and I'm not sure why. And when I snap at him or act... | My dad is so kind but whenever we talk or I see him I get very upset and short tempered and I hate it and I don't know why, I can't help it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: A collections agency is has been harassing me and threatening to sue me personally for a debt owed by MY EMPLOYER- can they do that?
POST: I have been contacted by a debt collections agency both at work AND at home regarding a debt owned by my employer.
Long story short, I was asked b... | I send an purchase order which my company refused to pay for, and I am now being personally threatened by a collections agency |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M/23] broke up with my first serious girlfriend [F/23] a few days ago. I need help. I don't know what to do.
POST: I have had a few girlfriends in the past but they never lasted longer than a few months. My most recent girlfriend and I dated for almost 2 years.
I broke up with h... | Broke up with my first serious girlfriend of almost two years because I couldn't see myself spending the rest of my life with her. I am totally devastated and need any kind of advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by spilling iced coffee all over my desktop computer
POST: I had just woken up, so I started breakfast by putting cinnamon rolls in the oven. I then felt like playing a game of league of legends, so I started it up. After about 20 mins in we were about to win, and I hear the kitchen tim... | I spilled coffee on my computer because of cinnamon rolls and League of Legends. I then proceeded to be the luckiest man in the world because I was able to get the computer to work again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] am so fed up with my parnters [24 M] performance in bed I don't know what to do anymore
POST: I have been in a relationship with a man for about 2.5 years. He is so wonderful and thoughtful in so many ways but he can't last in with vaginal sex longer than a few seconds on a g... | SO is a premature ejaculator and I am at the point of wanting to break up over his lack of caring/action about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I misrepresented my marital status to my classmates. (27M)
POST: I am not an American but I am enrolled in a graduate program in the United States. I started last fall and when I came here initially I did not come with my wife. For whatever reason, I wanted to experience single life ... | Foreign student in America. Acted as if I was single and stated I was single when I was in reality married with a child. Do not know what to say to friend now that my wife/son are joining me here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with [21 M] being called a "sexual guide" and "test subject"
POST: I've been dating around for a while since a big breakup and seeing one guy for 2 months. I'm not interested in a committed, let's do whatever it takes to make this work kind of relationship and probably wont... | Is it ok to refer to somebody you're consistently hooking up with as a 'test subject' (with regards to what you are in the relationship) in any context or is it normal to be offended? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Right in the feels... saw some halloween party pictures of myself.
POST: I've so far lost ~6kg/12lbs, which puts me halfway towards my goal; currently I'm 70.5kg (~155lbs) at just over 5'10". I'll be honest, I've plateau'd pretty hard, I've not been very good over the past few months. But... | look really pregnant and it makes me feel like shit, but I'm actually only 10lbs from goal weight. Can I do anything? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30/M] with my Ex [26 F] 14 months apart, still feel as hung up sa I did at the start
POST: My last relationship ended 14 months ago now (she left me, if it's relevant) and I still feel 'heartbroken' for lack of a better term. Now, I'm not the sort to lack a wider perspective, usu... | It's been more than a year since I was dumped and I still feel as though it happened yesterday - what gives? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: 3 year relationship over, 22 fresh out of college, back to square one. How to rebound?
POST: So, my ex and I recently broke up after dating for 3 years. When we met she was 20/f and I was 18/m. We met my sophomore year of college and dated up until my college graduation (she is 23 now and... | I am 22, newly single after 3 years, almost enganged. Best way to rebound while living with parents, crazy work schedule, and almost no buddies to bar hop with? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(28f) ex boyfriend (27m) has been keeping me around for over a year as a plan of revenge.
POST: I could really use some support. My ex boyfriend just told me all this tonight: How he was always having sex with other girls, sometimes unprotected right before he would see me, lie to ... | Ex boyfriend has fulfilled his plan of revenge and told me everything tonight. sparing no details. I feel so worthless. How did I fall in love with this man? Why was I so blind? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Lifestyle catching up to salaries
POST: I'm a big fan of this sub and have learned a lot from reading but was hoping some of you wouldn't mind sharing your unbiased opinions about my case.
My wife and I (28 and 27 respectively) moved from Texas to NC, away from both sets of famil... | Take a look at the numbers and tell me how we are doing and how we could be doing better......please and thank you. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [19/m] Left girlfriend [19/f] alone for the day, asked for a break that same evening
POST: My girlfriend had an old friend coming to visit her from germany. I decided that I would give her the day to herself as i didn't want to feel like i was intruding. I told her that i lov... | My Girlfriend and I text happily in the morning, she spends the day with her lady friends and asks to go on break. Should I be worried? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can my husband [23M] and I [20F] help my Father-In-Law [55M] when he won't help himself?
POST: I have known my husband's dad for the whole time we have been together, which is about 7 years. From what I have seen, and what my husband tells me, he is a giver. But he gives to the p... | How do I help my FIL when he is about $5000 in debt from money grabbing relatives, and he won't do anything about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [F17] wrong in asking my boyfriend [M17] to quit doing chewing tobacco?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and a half. I have depression and I used to cut myself. My boyfriend asked me to stop a couple of months into our relationship and I did. I have not ... | Stopped cutting myself for boyfriend, however he won't stop dipping. Am I wrong in wanting him to stop, in fear of future health problems? What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do guy friends ever say I love you and not mean it weirdly?
POST: I (f22) have a close friend (m24) of 4 years, named 'John'. We sometimes fight. It's usually something really silly but gets intense. We always are fine after. Anyway, we had a big fight last time and he ended up yelli... | Guy friend yelled I love you at me, but I don't understand why it didn't seem like a big deal after? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: SO's friend is a cheater and Im uncomfortable with them hanging out. Advice?
POST: Thank you for taking the time to read this.
A little background my SO and I are both 32 and have been together for 2 1/2 years. We also have a 4 month old daughter. We have had some issues recen... | SOs good friend is a cheater and I have concerns with them hanging out. We are getting over our own issues in our relationship and Im not sure if I should bother mentioning to him I am uncomfortable. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 21M: Never been in a relationship, best friend thinks I'm gay, sister thinks I get girls all the time and parents have stopped asking
POST: In short, I'm a really awkward guy and a lot of the time I put up this wall around people, I think it's a defence mechanism so that people ca... | Anyone else feel like the most awkward, emotionally/sexually stunted man-child and how/would you deal with it? I want to improve my interpersonal relationships of every kind. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] and boyfriend [18M] of 1 year, going to colleges 6.5 hours away from each other in the fall , scared for the future
POST: I apologize if this is long to read. To start off, I have been with "Patrick" for about a year now. He's my best friend as well as my boyfriend, and alth... | high school boyfriend and I going to colleges 6.5 hours away from each other, unsure of how to make the relationship work |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] 1 year 2 months My girlfriend wants to start smoking.
POST: Alright, so it starts out with her trying out a vape from one of her friends. This was somewhere in May I believe. She asks to try it and she likes it due to the high it gave her.
This wa... | Girlfriend vaped because of her bestfriend, she tried a cigarette, and wants to do more of the cigarette. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 24/f boyfriend is 23. I feel like we might be breaking up and I'm not sure what to do.
POST: We have been dating for a little over 2 years. I think we have a fantastic relationships we rarely fight or argue we have an awesome sex life his friends like me, my friends like him, paren... | boyfriend started classes so we are seeing each other much less I asked if we were okay and he gave me a vague strange answer and now I am on edge. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend getting frustrated with my lack of sex drive. What to do?
POST: My BF and I have been dating for coming up on 4 years. I'm 23 he's 24. We've been though thick and thin together and its very hard to imagine being without him.
He makes me a better person, and I like to t... | 23f + 24m together 4 years. Currently having sex ~ twice a week. He wants more, threatening break up. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23f] girlfriend is gambling to break up with me [23m]. Should I let it happen and hope for the best, or cut it off first?
POST: We've been together (very long distance) for nearly 3 years and we've been planning for her to move to my city in 2 months.
She prefers her current cit... | Long distance girlfriend of 3 years has been planning to move in with me, basically just took a chance for something "better" by applying to a job that would result in our break up if she gets it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my ex-boyfriend/good friend [25 M] 3 years, I need help getting a sociopath out of my life
POST: He is incredibly charming, good looking, and intellectual. He is also a sociopath. I am not in love with him, and never have been, but I am absolutely addicted to him. He s... | Manipulative/sociopathic friend that I need to cut out but can't seem to find the strength. Asking for people to share any similar experiences. Advice is welcome... |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Working out
POST: Alright so I'm pretty new to working out, I just graduated high school and I've only worked out a few times while I was playing basketball for the school. I am pretty slim, about 6'4, 165 lbs. and I have a little bit of a gut. I recently have decided that I want to join th... | going to Air Force to get help with college, can't currently meet physical reqs. and I need advice to get there. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My fiance [23, M] and I [22, F] have been together 3 years, and he has a huge spending problem, and lies about it.
POST: I love my fiance very much. He's sweet, loyal and funny. We've been living together for 3 years and have pretty much built a life together. We jointly own a car, h... | My fiance lies to me about his spending and gets us into massive debt. I feel like I can't trust him, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: back with my [38 m] ex-wife [38 f] who cheated on me and i can't forget what she did to me
POST: my ex who i divorced when i was 27 for cheating on me and i started a relationship again (please read my previous posts if you need more info about it) and things were real good between u... | back with my ex-wife who cheated on me and having problems since i can't get that image of her having sex with that other guy outta my head |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to keep interest over (yikes) the internet. [M16][F16]
POST: Like two and a half weeks ago this girl whom I had met at a Halloween party and gotten REALLY into texted me. I had just gotten over my huge crush on her when she texted me too which was weird haha.
We had been textin... | I'm really into a girl and I can't talk to her for a week or so as its winter break, and I'm feeling she's getting less interested in me. What should I say or do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: New Diet/Exercise - Shin Pain Issues
POST: First off, I'm not incredibly obese. I'm 5'10" and 215 lbs. About 6 months ago I tried to go back on the same diet/exercise program I used 3 years back to lose 30 lbs. Basically, lower calorie intake, exercise 5-6 days out of the week, running abou... | Want to get back in shape, not morbidly obese, shin splints making runs very painful, bought new shoes, help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bisexual GF (22) and I (22), after 5 years, broke up because of lack of physical attraction...
POST: Hello everyone, happy holidays...
My gf and I had been going out for almost 5 years, she is bisexual but it's never been an issue nor did I believe it would ever be. When we began... | After 5 years my gf lost her physical/sexual attraction for me and we broke up. I feel like shit and don't know how to cope with this situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by almost fighting all of my friends
POST: Very new to this site, so bare with me.
Soooo, I got the great idea of going to the beach with a bunch of friends. Well, while at the beach I made some very poor decisions while blackout drunk, like getting in all of my friends faces, and using... | I'm pretty sure I ended some longtime relationships over some stupid overreaction due to a mix of alcohol, the sun, and bad tempers. I just don't know what the fuck to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I need relationship advice. Not sure how to talk to bf or if I should call it quits.
POST: I have a wonderful bf, we've been together over 5 years. He lives at my house, helps with bills takes care of my daughter like she was her own. He even does chores.
However he likes to d... | Great bf. Drinks frequently, blacks out on occasion and makes me cry or breaks stuff. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by getting the nerve to ask a girl out
POST: This happened a few months ago, but man did it mess me up. I'm an incredibly shy guy around women. I always have been. To the point where introducing myself out of nowhere is a nearly impossible task.
So this new girl at my work shows up, an... | first time I've ever introduced myself and asked an attractive girl on a date out of the blue. Was rewarded for it by getting stood up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: What's the best way to stop another person's dog jumping on you?
POST: Hi guys,
I have friends who own a GSD Malamute mix. I love dogs but this guy is a bit of a pain in the ass. Whenever me and my gf visit them, we try our best to just ignore him, but unless they're physically restraining h... | friend's large dog is hyper excited to see guests and jumps up at them which hurts, how can we stop him doing it to us?" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [22M] is the chick & I [27F] am the dude...stay or go?
POST: I [27F] don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend [22M] It feels like we have no connection anymore when we hang out, just a friendly situation. No affection. Just laughs.
At first we had fun & were si... | I honestly don't know if I should stay with someone I don't feel a connection with keep trying or just leave the relationship. HELP! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: To the married/newly engaged Reddit community- what made you look at your SO and think "I want to be with this person for the rest of my life!"
POST: Recently my generation (I'm 25 about to turn 26) has been getting engaged/married/having kids. They're all so young and idealistic and ent... | starting off as young, enthusiastic couples full of care and commitment, are we destined to grow apart as roommates who love each other but don't necessarily like each other? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A colleague at work [40sM] is encouraging me [24F] to apply for another job internally [after 18 months]. Concerned about burning bridges.
POST: I found work at a great company soon after finishing college. It's not *exactly* what I want to do, but it's pretty close. And the company ... | May have an opportunity to move to a better role at work, but would leave current team understaffed. Worried about screwing them over / burning bridges. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My best friend (37F) was to take care of me (27F) after my abortion. She stood me up & hasn't called.
POST: I found I was pregnant April 23. I told very few friends. My best friend, 'Kate' has known the relationship between me & the guy I've been dating for a while.
We are best frie... | 'best friend' was supposed to take care of me post abortion. She was no call no show. How can I be her friend again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Was anyone else completely fucked over by Alaska Air today?
POST: Their computers that provide flight plan data to the pilots went down today. My flight was delayed 5 hours all the while everyone was assured that their connecting flights through Alaska Air would be delayed and noone woul... | Alaska Air fucked up all their flights today, then treated everyone like shit while they dealt with their unorganized clusterfuck. Anyone else have a new sense of hatred for them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 25m - sending stuff back to my ex with a letter for closure. Is it wise?
POST: So I used to get a magazine delivered to my house on behalf of my ex. I got through the final issue today. I have a few other little things belonging to her and it'll probably fill up an envelope.
I'v... | Have unfinished business with an ex. Want to return her stuff with a letter of apology (even though she has no intention of doing either). |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I access the content of a banned subreddit?
POST: I know what you may be thinking and no it's not a porn one. It was a self-help community where one of the moderators tried to scam people so the subreddit was banned. The community there was incredibly vibrant and there was a to... | SUBREDDIT WITH LEGAL CONTENT WAS BANNED AND I WOULD LIKE TO BE ABLE TO ACCESS IT AGAIN |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19/M] How to get over my girlfriend[19] of 6 month's sexual history?
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 6 months now, and it's honestly been the best 6 months of my life. I love this girl tremendously and she loves me too, and even just after 6 months I can't imagine my... | Love this girl. She took my virginity but she's had sex with 3 others before me (only 1 time each). Know I'm being ridiculous but can't quite seem to get over it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (F/21) tell the guy I'm dating (M/22) about a past sexual assault?
POST: In January 2013 I was sexually assaulted by an older guy I met at a party (a few days after the party, we were both sober, he wanted to do something that I didn't and he was a lot larger than me so here... | I was sexually assaulted, I'm entering a new relationship and I want to tell the guy about it. When? How? Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By not having health insurance after fracturing a vertebrae and some ribs.
POST: So last weekend while having a beer at my cousins apartment in Brooklyn, NYC I sat a ledge on his balcony, leaned too far backwards and fell 20-25 feet into his back alley.
I fractured my T6 vertebrae and ... | I'm on painkillers and bored at the hospital. I can't leave until I pay for a back brace I can't afford so I'll be sitting in my hospital bed for a while. Cheers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is this awkward girl crushing on me or is she just shy?
POST: Ok so I've known this girl since elementary school and now we go to the same university. We've always had mutual friends but I would not say that we were good friends, more acquaintances since we've gone to the same school... | Girl I've known most my life as acquaintance has tried to start hanging out with me, seeming awkward and nervous when she didn't before, and going out of her way to get my attention. Crush? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Breast augmentation for gf birthday, bad idea?
POST: So my gf of 2+ years has always been extremely self conscious about her breasts, and it's been a huge drag on her self-confidence and self image. I like them just fine, and often tell her that, but she's still very reserved about herse... | Gf extremely uncomfortable with her boobs, does not like them, wishes she had better boobs, causes lack of self confidence. I want to pay for plastic surgery but don't want her taking it to mean I don't like her boobs |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My brother (m 21) is having a fling with a girl (15-16F?) younger than me (17 F)
POST: Okay, so tonight I was having a little get together with a few of my girl friends, casually drinking, that sort of thing. Until my brother showed up with 3 people, that's when I got a bit hostile a... | My 21 year old brother is starting to develop a relationship with a girl that is two years younger than me! How do I get him to stop? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think my(33) wife(30) of 10 years is cheating with our marriage counselor, please tell me I'm wrong...
POST: My wife(30) and I (33) have been married for 10 years. We have known our marriage counselor for longer than we have been married. We have been going to see him as a counse... | Our marriage counselor of 2 years, who has been a friend for longer, and my wife are sending what I'm really hoping aren't sexual texts, please tell me I'm paranoid! |